Tantrum

a poem about my son

Lori A. Coleman
Feb 23, 2021
Photo by the author, Lori and Erin Photography

You’ve always been a pretty even-tempered child.

Very curious about the world.

An observer,
first.

But lately I have started to see
your adventurous
hold-me-upside-down-until-I-turn-blue
side.

And your silly
come-here-so-I-can-blow-raspberries-on-you
side.

And today, you unleashed your
I-have-an-opinion
side.

And this side comes with another new sound.
The angry, flailing, yelling
sound.

It’s the
I-know-what-I-want-and-I’m-not-getting-it
sound.

It’s accompanied by wild limbs
and that full body wiggle that makes you hard to pick up.

It’s different than the
ouch-that-hurt,
mommy-don’t-go,
and I’m-so-tired
sounds.

This one is distinct.
Like a vision of your toddlerhood come early.

I think today
marks your very
first
tantrum.

Words 11 months postpartum
Photo 15 months postpartum

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Lori A. Coleman

Newish mom, writing my way out of postpartum depression. Oldish photographer, telling stories about families, love and life.